Alexis Rayne | Exister

      Breakups absolutely suck. That's just the truth. Trust me, I have had my share of bad relationships, break ups, rebounds, and complete heartbreak. Due to my experiences, I feel as though I am able to provide you with a little guidance on how to move on based on what's helped me.     First, I will provide a little background to stabilize my opinion. My most recent relationship was fine I guess...he just wasn't the person that I wanted to commit to spending the rest of my life with, so I ended it. Before that, I was stuck as the side chick in a long distance relationship and as much as I wanted to leave, the guy would threaten with suicide, so I was unable to until I dmed his girlfriend so that my part in the relationship could end. Before him, I was in an abusive relationship with a guy who ended up ghosting me. And in my first relationship, I was cheated on at least seven times.     To say the least, I've had my share of good and bad an...

      If you've read my prior post, you know that I chose to break up with my boyfriend of seven months. I had been loosely debating if he was the person that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with, and some of his recent actions had answered for me. I didn't want to be angry or upset, but after the break up, he continued to text and direct message me over three separate apps. Finally, today, I think all of the messaging and texting is over and we can both finally move on.      I've spent a lot of today answering questions about myself, writing, and reading about how to get over someone, but here is my spin on it. 1. Do not text them     Yea, I know. I screwed up this part which is why I feel like I can talk about it. The break up was my decision and my doing, but of course leaving my best friend still hurt really badly. When I broke up with him, it was an in person action, and he made no effort to change my mind or fix it. That nigh...